Sunday, October 11, 2009

Help! I need somebody...

Anybody reading my blog, please. I'm entreating you right now for some hard core advice.

How do you play hard to get? I've never been good at this dating game, and I think the thrill of the chase may play to my advantage in the situation I'm in. Help! I need advice! I know men are completely thick to things that aren't obvious at all, and I'm all about subtleties, which is not good.

12 comments:

The Boob Nazi said...

hahahahahahha I HAVE NO IDEA.

Wendyburd1 said...

I have no idea, I have no experience!

Whitney Leigh said...

1.) flirt for a couple minutes i.e. lightly hit his arm and laugh at his joke, then when he is enjoying your attention, IGNORE HIM!!!
2.)look hot all the time. Doesn't necessarily mean to spend hours on your look, just BE CONFIDENT! any guy will believe you're hot if you do.
3.)Give him a split second of eye contact and a side smile that says, "you know you want me" then look away and don't look back, a.k.a. IGNORE HIM!!!
4.)well he feels like he must have you and asks you to come over, say MAYBE!!!! of course you'll do it, but don't let him know.

if you need more advice, call me. after all, I am your bff. love you.

Darin said...

I say don't. As you said, we (us?) guys are thick headed. I speak for most guys in saying that if you play hard to get, we interpret it as that you're just not interested. And move on. Which I'm guessing you don't want.

Whitney Leigh said...

Darin, you're counteracting my beautiful advice. which may I add, has worked brilliantly for me in the past.

p.s. i miss you sooooo much.

Darin said...

Hm. Sounds like you're going for psych majors or really stubborn guys.

P.S. - I miss you more. When are you headed to L-town next? We should party. Hardy.

Whitney Leigh said...

actually, mechanics. haha and I don't know when I'm headed back there.my stupid work restricts my time for going home. :( stupid brick oven.

Ashley said...

Ha ha I just read a book in my English class about this, "The Coquette" by Hannah Webster Foster. Anyways, as far as playing hard to get goes, it's pretty dangerous! You run the risk of running the boy off! Whenever I talk to boys about this stuff, they always say they wish girls would just be straightforward with them. But if you think this strategy is best in the situation, I'd say seek the advice from guys- what do they find attractive about a girl who play's "hard to get"? Then you can try those strategies. Ha ha good luck!

Ashley said...

Oooh, and I agree with Whit- confidence is key.

Minnie Mouse said...

This is McCall and Husband Brady speaking:
Brady-I say just give up on the guy. You don't have to play games with true love. Guys that like the "hard to get" girls will just leave once the game is over. They will go find another, harder to get, girl. I say go find someone more worth your time!
McCall- To be honest with you Kayleigh I always kinda wanted to play hard to get. But it really is risky business and the straightforward thing works for a fact. Im here to tell you. Im all about confrontation, no secrets. Just telling how it is. Love ya girl. Good luck!!

Whitney Leigh said...

Mechanics? Was Rex going into Mechanics??

OH WAIT. That was Douchebag Chris.

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He was the worst decision of my life.

Brady has the best advice up there. Any guy who is playing games will get bored when the game is over. Go for straight forward.

No wonder I dated losers with my tactics up there. uggghhhh.

Whitney Leigh said...

I'm laughing that I'm here giving 2009 Kayleigh dating advice.